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You are radiant. YES. YOU. 🌈✨[Needed this today, and who knows? Maybe you did too!] . REAL TALK: I've been feeling pretty stressed and overwhelmed lately. I thought I had it all under control, but turns out, it's catching up to me. Being my own boss has been a crazy adjustment. It's been going well for the most part, but it's a challenge. And not only have I been trying to navigate the world of freelance (including figuring out my own taxes, insurance, work schedule, etc.), but also balancing a ton of travel, a boyfriend who's on vacation for the month, an upcoming international move, parents who are gearing up to sell my childhood home, blogging and well, everything else that comes along with life. So, Instagram has been put on the back burner. Even though I've been dying to share all of my adventures and travels, I simply haven't had it in me. Insetead, I've been trying to be nice to myself, understand that this is an adjustment period, and not stretch myself too thin. . And so- to all my kickass freelancing friends out there- How on EARTH do you do it? 😜 Any and all tips are welcome- and hats off to you 🤩
It's only been a few weeks, and already I feel it. There's a reason long distance isn't for everyone. It's not easy to be away from your person. BUT that ends TODAY. See you in a few hours mi amor!! 🙃💕
On Thursday I helped an older man on crutches carry his suitcase up the stairs out of the subway in NY. It was hot, extremely humid, and I could see he was struggling. So, I simply offered to help. People all around were buzzing by, rushing on to their next destination, looking down at their phones, completely oblivious to the world around them. One even pushed by us as we worked our way up, nearly knocking the man over.⠀ .⠀ Why am I telling you this story? Honestly, it’s not to get a pat on the back ... really. Because I don’t deserve it. 🙅🏼‍♀️All I did was take a moment to lend a helping hand when no one else was paying attention. BUT, I too have been that person, rushing by, only concerned with my reality. I too often find myself consumed with my current situation, oblivious to the world around me. I'm not special or superior. I'm no different. ⠀ .⠀ So, then, why am I telling you? Well, I was hoping to inspire you (and to remind myself!) to go out and actively do little things like this more often. Because it took less than 2 minutes from my day, and made someone else’s. ⠀ .⠀ The second we all start putting other people first, even if only for a moment, this world will become a much better place. So, strive to be the type of person that holds the door, that helps a frazzled shopper carry their groceries, or the type of person who simply smiles at a stranger. These little acts of kindness go further than you could possibly imagine.
It’s this guy’s big 3️⃣0️⃣today! 🎉 [And since I know you're sneakily checking this app, here's your bday shoutout @oaiv] ⠀ .⠀ Unfortunately, today we’re celebrating his birthday from different continents. Days like today long distance *especially* sucks. Wish I could tackle you with hugs and kisses today, but I can’t wait to squeeze the 💩out of you SO SOON. Thank you for being the most supportive, loving, understanding and patient partner that this girl could ask for. Pásalo chévere en Chile mi amor! 🇨🇱 Te mando un beso gigante desde 🇺🇸
The hills are aliveee with the sound of musiccc 🎶- have had this song stuck in my head for weeks. Especially this week as I've been going through all my #Liechtenstein photos. I mean, have you ever seen such a GREEN countryside?! 💚💚
The "she" to my "nanigans." Swipe right for the full progression of this lady spinning me around and dropping me right on my a$$. 🤦‍♀ . Long distance relationships. They ain't easy. And I'd be straight up lying if I said I enjoyed the feeling of FOMO, and the fact that I feel like I've missed out on so much over the years. BUT, in a way, I do feel closer to many of my friends. Of course I haven't been able to keep close contact with EVERYONE (but isn't that something normal that comes along with #adulting?). And, I do feel like those close relationships I have been able to maintain, have actually become stronger. My close friends and I have had to find creative ways to keep in touch and make our relationship meaningful. Sure, we miss each other, but the time we do get to spend together becomes that much more special. We've gotten to discover and explore new places together and we're still just a phone call (or voice note) away.
A friendly piece of advice: pack your bags and move somewhere new. Go live somewhere you've always wanted to be, or try a place you don't know much about, but sparks your curiosity. 📍 . It doesn't have to be for a long time. It doesn't have to be permanent. It doesn't even necessarily have to be somewhere far. Just take a chance & GO. ✈️ . What's the worst that can happen? I'll tell you- you absolutely hate it and you decide to go back home. [Thankfully, home's not going anywhere.] But, chances are, the worst case scenario won't happen. . Actually, chances are you'll: 💪🏼Become a stronger, more well-rounded and open individual . 🙆‍♀ Get to know (and like) yourself better than you ever thought you could . 👀 Gain a new appreciation for your home and learn to see it with new eyes and a fresh perspective . ✨ Rack up a ton of new friends, new stories, and new experiences ❗& so, so much more My friend @nativalderrama posted about this a few weeks ago, and I couldn't agree more. It's advice I've given before, and I'll definitely give again. I've done this a few times now, and it's completely changed my life, it's made me who I am today. And I'm pretty happy with that person 🙃 - And hey, you never know if you don't try, right?! . Have you ever lived in a new city/country? If so, where, and how was your experience?
It's JULY! 😱 That means my time here in Liechtenstein 🇱🇮(& with this guy right here 🥺) is coming to an end. I'm heading back to the States on Thursday, just in time for the 4th 🇺🇸 and that's where I'll be spending the rest of the summer! I have to admit, I'm really going to miss this green little princely principality though. I think I could really get used to this simple "small town," mountain life. Who knew?! 🤷🏼‍♀️ . Don't worry, I'm not done sharing Liechtenstein photos just yet. As I crank out my blog posts, there will be many more of those to come 🤗 #visitliechtenstein
"Us humans could learn a lot from llamas."🦙Anna-lena of @lamaalpakahoftriesenberg said this to me and I have to say after this week, I totally agree. On Tuesday, I got to witness a newborn baby llama take her very first steps. Just moments after taking her first breath, she had to face this challenge all on her own. Each time her skinny little wobbly legs gave out, she’d take a quick break, muster up her strength and energy once more, then get right back to it. Talk about persistence. 💪🏼 Finally, after several unsuccessful tries, she did it!!! [maybe she only lasted for a few seconds,but hey, little by little 😜] Check out my instastory to see for yourself! ⬆️ . Yesterday was a rough one. My entire site crashed, and I wasn't sure if all my content was gone forever.😔 I was in a straight up panic, and literally didn't get up from my computer for 10 straight hours👩🏼‍💻 I was determined to figure out what happened and fix it, and then figure out a way to make sure this never happens again. I just kept thinking of the baby llama, pushing and pushing herself and not giving up. Well, it's not all figured out just yet- but my site is back up and running, for now, (thanks to help from a friend) and I'm still determined to take back control so things run more smoothly in the future. Thanks for the inspiration baby llama 🦙😚